* * * How to just be ~ YOU * * * # 3

So this part is about taking a look under the surface. What are you hiding from others? Or even things from yourself. Have you read the first two parts yet? Click here >>> 1 & 2 to check them out again. And it would be awesome if you share your thoughts about the topics. Enjoy this one as well and expect true honestly from me :)

Who are you truly?

Let's be real honest for a sec here. Are you happy and satisfied with your current living situation and happiness? Are you really being YOU? Or just putting on masks where no one can "see" when your hurting or something offended you and you regret that moment you could have defended yourself. And then when the moment is over that you wished you had done it differently. The "hard" part is how will you act the next time you see or talk to that person again? All I can say is I know exactly how your feeling right now!

You feel frustrated and angry and you know the funny part? Well actually we can't call it that ;) . But here we are fussing and over thinking the situation again and again, meanwhile the person who has putten this on you is now at home enjoying himself. Well I be darn. What's wrong with this picture? So let's "face" it. Do you wanna be totally and 100% yourself? Start living it and throw away those ugly masks and speak up what you wanna say in a respective & honest way of course.

I always want to treate people just the way I want to be treated.  In a loving & caring, respective and honest way. But I added  to the list that I am not gonna put aside my own opinion. We're all given a "voice" use it in a positive & inspiring way.

Get of that " I blame everybody and the world about the way I feel"

I can imagine that it's not always easy to be yourself or where to start? I've learned that you can't please everybody. Believe me I was so good at it. And before you know it someone else is controlling your life AND emotions. That's like giving away your power. Before we know it we are blaming another person about it and exposing all those negative emotions on the people close to you. But it definately makes you feel better right? Well not for long though and actually you are giving away your power, your happiness, your values...  So now is the time to take it back. How? Take a look today at your current situation and start taking action. It's your life and you deserve to at least treat yourself like precious value.

- Reflection Moments - 

When your getting real about your current situation. It's handy to keep in mind that your gonna go through some phases. In these moments it's a good thing to reflect on these moments. Why? Because in these moments you take a clear look behind the masks and get honest and real what needs to go or on what you need to work on. Mostly I'll write it off my "chest", analyze an old habit and if it isn't in line with the next step in my life purpose, I'll despose it out. These moments can give you clarity on what to put your focus on and what needs to go. Write it off, analyze it..... Is it usefull? Is it a match with your current goals? Is it in line what you believe in or value in life? Is it positive and respective? A wholeeeee lot to think about huh? I would say get started as soon as you can and keep on moving forward step by step. If you choose to do nothing you're also making a choice.

- Re-discover -  

Re- discover what your true character is. How do you see yourself now? How do you want to be seen by others ( without losing yourself in the progress )? How do the people who are often around you see you now? Analyze yourself with these questions and get inside your head and heart. A good and inspiring video to watch after reading this blog-post is another short inspiring video from Pastor Paula White . Check it out here >>>

Finally find out what's taking energy out of you - with which activity/subject is this always? If it's sucking the life out of you then you know it's not a good sign. When you recognize it you can do something about it. How? It's easy and simple.... Just take a look at the things in your life that brings joy, give more energy and peace. If you haven't got the time to do this yet, you can figure it out now.

" Just remember this. God made you unique and special just the way you are meant to be. Yeah of course you can't ignore the "baggage" in your life & personality. But it's up to you what you want to carry in it and start  seeing and believing what God's already been seeing in you ~ A Bright Star~ Ready to touch the world in a special way."  Lindsay R

 

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- Lin -